I Choose

Everything in life is a choice regardless at home, at work or out in your community.  So with this in mind we choose our attitude towards whatever life brings to us.

Having a solid sense of self is first and foremost, in action, reaction and the deeds that we preform in recognizing how do I role.

How do you represent YOU, at home?

What is your attitude towards your partner (spouse)?

Do you feel you are the King /Queen of the castle? Do YOU feel you are at the “Top of the Food Chain” and your spouse will be the one that will always come to you with a smile and a good morning, without any support from YOU?  Do you use fear and intimidation for control … a drama King or Queen?

It take two to make a thing go right …

“WE” are all responsible for our own ATTITUDE towards others. “We” can make excuses for “OUR OWN” behavior … I am not a morning person.  I am not a happy person by nature .. bla bla bla.  There is NO excuse for not have manners,  with the ones you say you love!

What is your ATITTUDE towards your children?  Do you feel your children are all the same and treat them the same?  Do as I say and not as I do?  Do you invest time and loving energy with kindness, humor, compassion and treat them as individuals, that they are?

Everything in life is all about your attitude and what are you willing to recognize in your role as a leader in your Home.  Here are a few examples of what a Healthy Relationship looks like.

TRUST

I would like to share with you a saying in marketing … “Promise only what you can deliver, but always deliver more then what you promise”.  Twice in my life time I have heard two people say to me ‘I promise you nothing”, once on a personal level and once on a business level.  This is how I feel about that.

Nothing from Nothing is Nothing got to have something if you want to be with me.  Promise me only what you can deliver and if the only thing you can deliver is nothing then found someone else who feels they are worthy of nothing.

TRUST is  number one and it is all encompassing  …  I TRUST my

  1. Attitude- Having an open mind to recognize YOUR own attitude towards the ones you love.
  2. Humor- Having a sense of humor in life’s silliness will get you through so much.  Having a sense of humor is different then some having the ability to remember and tell a joke, any fool can remember a joke, it take a quick wit and intelligence to  have a sense of humor in life.
  3. Patience- Having a loving and patience heart for everyone one on your HOME team is one of the greatest gifts you can give.  Not everyone will have the same interest as you and that is OK, show an interest in what others are interested in.  Use patience and guidance as leaders (parents, partners) with everyone on your HOME team, take the time to listen to your partner, children and be the example for everyone.
  4. Calmness- Having emotional control for whatever life my bring you is the greatest example for your HOME team to see, feel and embrace.
  5. Love- Having an open heart and loving your partner for all to see, in action, reaction and the deeds that you preform is an investment of that love, which is mutually shared by both partners.  When you invest in love, as with any investment, you may not see the rate of return for sometime, but in the end and it is just the two of you, both of you will reap the rewards of that investment.  It wont be with your buddies or girls friends, co-workers or possibly with your children, it will be with each other as your days ahead are fewer then your days behind. We are all one regardless of your position and we need to support one another, with kindness, compassion, and understanding for the desired outcome which is to be sustainable.

Yes … I TRUST me and with that in mind do the same for me or watch me leave.

Everything in life is transferable.

How do you represent you at work?

What is your attitude towards your co-workers regardless of their position in the company?

Do you feel you are the King /Queen of the castle? Do YOU feel you are at the “Top of the Food Chain” and everyone below you will be the one that will always come to you with a smile and a good morning, without any support from YOU?  Do you use fear and intimidation for control … a drama King or Queen?

Having the ability to recognize your own ATTITUDE as WE are all responsible for our own ATTITUDE towards others. We can make excuses for OUR OWN behavior and attitude but at the end of the day it is all about YOU.

What is your ATITTUDE towards your WORK place HOME?  Do you feel your WORK place team are all the same and are treated them the same?  Do as I say and not as I do?  Do you invest time and loving energy with kindness, humor, compassion and treat them as individuals, that they are? Do you share a smile with everyone you meet?

Everything in life is all about your ATTITUDE and what are YOU willing to recognize in your role as a leader in your WORK PLACE Home.  I would like to share with you my ATTITUDE about my work place home.  We are all one regardless of your position and we need to support one another, with kindness, compassion, and understanding for the desired outcome which is to be sustainable.

TRUST is  number one and it is all encompassing  …  I TRUST my

  1. Attitude- Having an open mind to recognize YOUR own attitude towards others.
  2. Humor- Having a sense of humor in life’s silliness will get you through so much.  Having a sense of humor is different then some having the ability to remember and tell a joke, any fool can remember a joke, it take a quick wit and intelligence to have a sense of humor in life.
  3. Patience- Having a loving and patience heart for everyone one on your WORK PLACE team is one of the greatest gifts you can give.  Not everyone will have the same interest as you and that is OK, show an interest in what others are interested in.  Use patience and guidance as leader with everyone at your WORK PLACE HOME, take the time to listen and be the example for everyone.
  4. Calmness- Having emotional control for whatever life my bring you is the greatest example for your WORK PLACE HOME to see, feel and embrace.
  5. Love- Having an open heart and loving your WORK for all to see, in action, reaction and the deeds that you preform is an investment of that love, which is mutually shared..  When you invest in love, as with any investment, you may not see the rate of return for sometime, but in the end you will reap the rewards of that investment.   We are all one regardless of your position and we need to support one another, with kindness, compassion, and understanding for the desired outcome which is to be sustainable.

Yes … I TRUST me and with that in mind do the same for me or watch me leave.