The definition of trust is a firm belief in the reliability, TRUTH, ability, or strength of someone or something.
I trust everyone until they prove me wrong. It is not a reflecting upon me to trust; it is a reflection upon the untrusted. If you are telling me that I am valued, that I am cared about, and that I am worthy, I will believed you.
I value me, I care about me, I am worthy.
If you show me that I am not valued,
If you show me that I am not cared about,
If you show me that I am not worthy,
Then that is a reflection upon you, because actions speak louder than words.
I trust that you are being honest about who you are and are representing yourself in a TRUTHFUL way. In relationships it can be difficult males/females like the idea of, “wooing”; only showing one side of themselves to win you over.
A pretender hiding behind a false face only to show their true self after a commitment has been made, marriage.
Marriage is a contract of reliability, TRUTH, ability, or strength of someone. If one person is being untruth about who they are then that contract is nil and void, it never was a marriage to begin with.
If you use anger for control, which is ones choice, be that person from the beginning. Let your potential partner see the true you so that an informed decision can be made and not a false one.
With me, what you see is what you get there is no “wooing” here. I am a lover not a fighter; there will be no anger for control. I am a giver not a taker. I will give you my heart and be venerable. Surround yourself with people of like minds, at Home, at Work, at Play or in your Community and you will see how your “Amazing” shines.